Hi, I’m Margery Myres
I used to be a worried mother, tip-toeing around the house, doing my best not to aggravate my son. My life was horrible. I couldn’t watch television without looking over my shoulder, I had to pay attention to meticulous details when it came to making his dinner; I just didn’t want him to explode or want another argument.
My son was diagnosed with oppositional defiant disorder several years ago. Even before that, the arguments were incessant. Every morning when he would get up for school, every afternoon when he came home, there was always something to yell about.
In the beginning, I felt undermined by my son. I didn’t know that he had this disorder that was causing him to act out. At first, I tried calming him down so we could actually talk about what his problems were, but the yelling fits never seemed to stop. Eventually, I started yelling back out of sheer frustration. I’ve begged, pleaded, compromised, and offered him everything to stop arguing with me, but none of it has worked.
At one point, I had become a slave to his disorder. I’d looked for hope in some oppositional defiant disorder treatments, but nothing seemed to work. I tried getting him to go to a psychologist, but he never complied. I spent hours scouring the Internet, hoping to find something, anything that would make my life bearable again.
That’s when I found the Total Transformation.
Within days, my nightmare had ended. I could watch whatever I wanted on the television. I could read my books in peace, without worry of being interrupted. His hostility was practically gone. I have the Total Transformation to thank on so many levels.
James and Janet Lehman are practical, intelligent people. Their specially designed oppositional defiant disorder treatment has helped many others just like me. Parents who found themselves cowering, confused and angry found one of the only solutions for their feelings and their child’s disorder.
James and Janet, both long-term social workers with more than 50 years of combined experience, have created this program to help those forced into hostile, dramatic environments caused by oppositional defiant disorder. They know exactly how it feels; their son was diagnosed with learning disabilities when he was young. Their ability to work through these issues led to the development of the Total Transformation.
Like so many others, I had lost all hope. I thought the arguments would never end and I would be stuck feeling negatively toward my own son. These negative feelings made me begin to dislike my son and myself. I can’t even attempt to count the amount of nights I’d spent hoping and praying for a positive change.
The relationship between my son and I had not been remotely decent for years when the Total Transformation finally fell into my lap. It was in the early hours of the morning, long past the time I should have went to bed, and I was searching the Internet for the millionth time.
I found the Lehmans’ website and began reading. Looking at their description of their product, it sounded too good to be true. After reading the Frequently Asked Questions and the Reviews provided by users of the program, I was convinced.
The program promises to make instant changes to the behavior of your child. I watched it happen in my own son; as I said the words I was told to by the Lehmans’ oppositional defiant disorder treatment, it was like I could see his disorder begin to fade away. My hope was instantly restored! After that moment on, I knew things would look up for the two of us and the relationship we had.
The Total Transformation provides two DVDs, seven CDs and a 116-page book. With all three mediums, the program is very comprehensive. I found that if I didn’t have time to watch a DVD, I could listen to a CD. If I didn’t want to wear headphones and listen, I could read the extremely helpful book. The combination of CDs, DVDs and the book give parents no excuse to spend time finding ways to help their own situation.
The program gives parents a list of words and phrases that will instantly stop any argument. These 10 words have been miracle workers for me and my son. Every time we get into an argument, I use an appropriate word from this list and the argument stops almost instantly. I think they make him understand what’s going on and how he’s hurting his mother and our relationship; it makes him realize that he has accountability, which is a major part of the Total Transformation program.
The program isn’t just a tool for parents, by the way. A portion of this oppositional defiant disorder treatment is geared toward the child with the disorder. The part that helped my son the most was the problem-solving section. It taught him how to realize moments when he was letting his disorder get the best of him. It gave him the ability he now has to take care of his own problems and leave him less frustrated than when he was before the Total Transformation came into our lives.
As if the Total Transformation wasn’t convincing enough on its own, the Lehmans were offering the program, basically FREE of Charge! They still are offering this great deal! Possibly the best part of the Total Transformation is James and Janet Lehman’s decision to offer the program free to users who respond with feedback.
Legitimate feedback is what the Lehmans are looking for; they want to make their program better than it already is. With the help of people like us, they can do just that. If you purchase the program and provide feedback within 90 days, the Lehmans will refund the paid amount, excluding shipping and handling. The Total Transformation then becomes a great deal on top of being one of the best tools I’ve ever used in my life.
So why aren’t you ordering yet? If you need help with your child and their defiant behaviors, this is the treatment for you and them. When I found the Total Transformation, I realized that both my son and I needed this to return some normalcy to our lives. My expectations were extremely exceeded when I began using it. Yours will be, too.